There’s something incredibly powerful about witnessing and documenting the traditions that unite families across cultures. As a family photographer in New York City, I have the privilege of being invited into deeply personal and sacred spaces—and this Indian baby shower was no exception.
The celebration began with a traditional religious ceremony known as a Godh Bharai, a North Indian custom that honors the mother-to-be and the unborn child. In Hindu culture, these rituals are steeped in symbolism and blessings to protect and nurture the new life on the way.
As an observer and photographer, I was moved by the care and reverence displayed throughout the event. The ceremony opened with the elder women in the family performing puja (prayers) and offering blessings. The grandmother lit a candle, known as a diya, and placed a bindi on Lord Ganesha, the elephant-headed deity revered as the remover of obstacles and protector of beginnings.
The mother-to-be was adorned with blessings and sacred symbols—a red tika on the forehead, accompanied by grains of rice, both traditional signs of prosperity, purity, and the wish for a safe delivery. She was also gifted a coconut and rice, which represent fertility, nourishment, and abundance in Hindu customs.
One of the most touching moments was when female family members tied a kalava (sacred red thread) around the mother’s wrist, symbolizing protection and divine energy. These small gestures carried centuries of meaning and the weight of generations of women supporting one another.
Toward the end of the ceremony, two men—close family friends, possibly the future godfathers—engaged in a symbolic act of unity. They dipped their hands in a red-colored paste and gently placed their palms on the mother-to-be’s cheeks. She did the same in return, marking them both with love and familial connection. This moment felt like a visual promise of support—a way to say, “we are bonded now, for this child, and for life.”
After the ceremony, the family gathered at Serafina in Tribeca for a lunch celebration filled with laughter, drinks, and joy. One thing I love about Indian families is how deeply and fully they show up for one another. These aren’t just celebrations—they’re community declarations of love, support, and legacy.
As a photographer, what I cherish most is this chance to witness such beauty and care, regardless of belief systems or language. Every family, every story is unique—and being trusted to document these milestones is something I hold close to my heart.
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